{"id":7,"date":"2010-12-05T22:01:51","date_gmt":"2010-12-06T02:01:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/?p=7"},"modified":"2011-08-06T21:43:23","modified_gmt":"2011-08-07T01:43:23","slug":"marriagerelationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/marriagerelationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Respect Your Man"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Respect is big for a man. Shaunti Feldhahn surveyed men in her book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.shaunti.com\/BooksStudies\/ForWomenOnly\/tabid\/137\/Default.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">For Women Only<\/a> asking:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Think about what these two negative experiences would be like: <br \/>to feel alone and unloved in the world <br \/>OR <br \/>to feel inadequate and disrespected by everyone. <br \/>If you were forced to choose one, which would you prefer? <br \/>\u00a073.8% said: &#8220;Alone and Unloved&#8221;  <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>How many women\u00a0realize this? Not many I suspect. To tell a man what he should do is telling him he is incapable. Like a mother does a child. To command a man we are belittling him down to a child. That is the quickest way to crush someone you love. You want him to take care of the heart you share with him? Take care of his&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>A\u00a0fulfilling and loving relationship is one where each person is focused on the other&#8217;s needs. Two healthy people coming together respecting each other, giving freedom and acceptance\u00a0and having good boundaries.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Respect is big for a man. Shaunti Feldhahn surveyed men in her book For Women Only asking: Think about what these two negative experiences would be like: to feel alone and unloved in the world OR to feel inadequate and disrespected by everyone. If you were forced to choose one, which would you prefer? \u00a073.8% &bull;  <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/marriagerelationship\/\"> Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-marriage"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7"}],"version-history":[{"count":24,"href":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":45,"href":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7\/revisions\/45"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heart-bound.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}